Sex is an activity loved by people
of all ages, so being good in bed is very important. Many men can’t stop
talking about sex and assume they’re the best out there. They boast about their
bedroom skills, but they’re truly clueless as to what they’re doing wrong. Read
on to discover some common sex mistakes men should stop making, and if you’re
guilty, stop doing it:
1. Be Attentive, Please
Women love
foreplay and consider it to be an essential part of sex. We adore being kissed
and explored. When we don’t indulge in foreplay, we feel like we’re being
ripped off, as skipping foreplay makes sex feel rushed. Yes, there are times
when we get caught up in the moment, and foreplay isn’t a real concern; when
that happens, it’s totally awesome. When foreplay is regularly omitted,
however, we’re not happy. Spend time kissing and caressing us, please.
2. No Guarantees
Sex is a two-way
street. Just because you were satisfied, you can’t assume that we were, too.
Unless you made an effort to make it pleasurable for us, it very well may not
have been. Keep in mind that not all women orgasm easily, and many need some
extra assistance. Don’t assume we had an orgasm because if you’re not sure, it
likely didn’t happen.
3. Refrain From Being Boring
Women
have fantasies; we thrive on emotions. We read “50 Shades of Grey” and loved
it; we gossip about sex just as much as you do, if not more. So, explore our
fantasies. Ask us what we like and what we’ve always wanted to try.
4. Don’t Forget To Trim!
Manscaping
is important. For some of us, it’s almost as necessary to us as shaving our
legs is to you. Keep it in mind.
5. Repetition Not Allowed
Sex should
never be predictable. Women don’t want to have sex in the same position, each
and every time. We like sex not to be routine; we want it to be sensual and
exciting. Remember how you couldn’t keep your hands off of us in the beginning
of the relationship? Well, we want you to always feel that way about us.
6. Not Loving Oral Sex
Going
“downtown” is an absolute necessity — plain and simple, no explanation needed.
It should be something you do very frequently because you know we love it.
7. Actress of The Year It’s your job
to know your partner’s body. Be aware of her likes and dislikes so you can make
sex as enjoyable as possible, for her (and you). As a talented lover, you’re
supposed to know if she’s faking it.
8. Don’t Rush It
Coffee lines, doctor’s
visits and DMV appointments are all things that should be VERY quick. Sex, on
the other hand, shouldn’t be. Some men have trouble lasting long enough for
their partner to enjoy herself. Let’s hope you’re not one of those! Don’t put a
cap on how long sex should be. There’s no universal average, as all women have
different preferences, but it should be long enough to be pleasurable for both
of you.
9. Be The Man
Sometimes, we want you
to demonstrate that you’re our man. Sometimes, we like you to dominate and push
us against walls. Shake things up every now and then.
10. Stay With Me
After sex, many
women feel emotional, even if they don’t realize. Our bodies release oxytocin,
which can make us a little needier than usual. As a result, we like to relax
for a few minutes after sex and cuddle. When you’re in a rush to go somewhere,
you’re likely to hurt our feelings, even if you don’t mean any harm. Stay and
give us a few extra minutes of love.
source: Carly Spindel/EliteDaily
