Unfortunately, some women have yet to realize that and do these unfortunate things to attract a guy........continue reading after the cut
1. SLUT SHAME OTHER WOMEN:
If a man mentions another woman, you go on a rant about how trashy she is, the vulgar clothes she wears, all the people she’s slept with and in general what a “slut” she is.
THE PROBLEM WITH THAT:
Making another woman out to be a slut doesn’t
make you look pure, or sweet or good. In fact, even if you are those
things, you immediately look the opposite by talking about another woman this way.
2. MAKE FUN OF WOMEN FOR BEING “GIRLY”:
Trying to prove you’re a “chill” “low maintenance” “guy’s girl,” you
taunt the women who walk in the bar wearing 6-inch heels and tons of
makeup, so that the guy you’re trying to impress can hear you.THE PROBLEM WITH THAT:
If you really are low maintenance, your
character will speak for itself. But berating super feminine women isn’t
attractive because guess what? Guys like those
women! They like a good balance of “chill” and “girly.” And by making
fun of feminine women, you just told a guy that there is nothing
feminine about you.
3. THROW BACK A DOZEN SHOTS:
The guys at the bar are goading women to take shots with them. Most
women stop at a shot or two, or after two glasses of wine, but you throw
back a dozen shots with the guys to show you can hang.THE PROBLEM WITH THAT:
Here’s a secret: the guys don’t want you to say yes to all of those shots. If you do, sure—you’re fun for that night. But they long-term respect the women who stands by their own limit.
4. BE EXTREMELY SEXUAL IN CONVERSATION/MAKE SEXUAL INNUENDOS:
You make tons of sexual innuendos and in general try to make it clear you love sex and are great at it.
THE PROBLEM WITH THAT:
If the only thing you tell a guy about yourself is how great you are
at sex, sex is all he’ll want you for. You don’t have to tell a guy
you’re good at sex in order for him to want to have sex with you:
they’re men! They want to have sex with you either way. But if you talk
about something other than sex, they also might want to date you.
5. PRETEND TO BE A LESBIAN:
You make tons of sly comments insinuating
that you and your BFF hookup, or run around your apartment naked, to get
the attention of guys.
THE PROBLEM WITH THAT:
Sure, most guys fantasize about hooking up with a lesbian once or
twice. But that’s it. At the end of the day, a guy doesn’t want to worry
that his girlfriend is cheating on him with her friends.6. CHALLENGE A MAN’S MASCULINITY:
You emasculate guys, you point out things
that are girly about them, you make them believe you see them as total
feminine wusses. You do this so the guy wants to prove to you that he’s manly, by asking you out, kissing you, asking for your number or whatever.
THE PROBLEM WITH THAT:
You scare away shy guys, annoy respectable guys who are secure in themselves, and attract super agro guys with anger and insecurity problems.
7. KEEP AROUND MALE FRIENDS AND FLIRT WITH THEM:
To make potential suitors see how much guys
find you attractive, you run around with a posy of male friends who
you’re always kissing on the cheek, or whose laps you’re always sitting
on.
THE PROBLEM WITH THAT:
No guy wants to approach that! He knows the moment he talks to you,
your dozen male friends are picking him apart, and will give you all
their notes the moment he walks away.8. ALLOW YOURSELF TO BE SEXUALIZED:
When men make jokes that actually make you uncomfortable and make you feel objectified, you throw your head back and laugh and go along with it to show you’re cool.
THE PROBLEM WITH THAT:
Just like guys don’t actually want you to
accept the tenth shot, they don’t actually want you to let them
objectify you. It’s a test: the woman who puts up a fight is the woman
the guy might actually want to date.
Okay guys, let me hear from you. Are these points true or exaggerated? Have your say in the comments box.
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